MomPreneur
Strategy for managing time between family and work
I have found that being 100% present when I’m working and 100%present when I’m with my family works best for me.
I explain to my family that I work from home sometimes and thatmeans that I am not available.
I list chores and household responsibilities
I ask them which ones they want to do
I created a board with Sticky Notes listing the chores
When each person finishes their chores they remove the note
Question???
What system will you employ to activate all members of your fam-ily in taking care of the home?
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Boundaries in Business and Family
The best thing you can do is follow through with
whatever you say you will do.
Always
Never
Don’t
Be
Let them see your integrity by following through
When you are working and someone crosses a boundary, do whatyou said you would do. Perhaps that means not answering thephone etc.
Decide what consequences you will implement, then
inform your family and tell them why you have decided to do this.Ultimately it’s is an act of love to have clear boundaries and clearconsequences.
Question???
How will you set boundaries?
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What consequences will you set when boundaries are crossed?
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Create and Extend your Village
Your village will change. The availability of key players in yourvillage will change. Extend your village.
Not How, but Who?
Don’t think about HOW you can accomplish your tasks,
think about WHO can help you accomplish your tasks.
Plan, Prepare and then Expect to Adapt
The only guarantee you have is that you will face the need tochange constantly in ALL aspects of life.
So plan for what you want
Inform everyone involved
Ask if others have input on your plan, when it affects them
Expect to have to adjust as you go along
Role Modeling
As an entrepreneur, I am built for working both
independently and interdependently.
To start a business, it requires a great deal of independent action.
Actualization only comes through interdependence.
Showing this to my family is by osmosis as well as
intentional. Impressing the value of smart work is
extremely important.
*It’s important to recognize that NOT everyone is created for entrepreneurship and that familymembers who are NOT created for it should be celebrated for what they do as well.
You have to see her to be her. You have to see it to be it.
This works both ways, YOU also need a Role Model/Mentor
Question???
When will you reach out to a new Role Model for
yourself? Write the date below and write what you will say.
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Balance is different for everyone.
-Decide what balance is for YOU!
Balance comes in different forms. Some years you give more
support, some years, you receive more support. It’s not tit for tat.
Only you can determine your balance which I call HARMONY.This needs to be discussed with your family and then, just go forit!
Question???
What is your definition of Balance?
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Perfectionism
Don’t do it!!
Perfection doesn’t exist
Aim for Excellence
Questions???
Has anyone ever called you a Perfectionist?
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Do you think you are a Perfectionist?
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Why do you think you are a Perfectionist?
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Do you want to stop being a Perfectionist?
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Self Care
Schedule it
Add it into the budget
Present this as normal to your family
NO GUILT EVER!
Just know that there are things you will miss
Sometimes you won’t make money because you are with family
Sometimes you won’t make family events because you are outthere making money
You can’t do 2 things at once
So why should you feel guilty
Just decide where you want to be, and be there fully
Every good thing on earth was created by someone who was awayfrom their family in order to bring it to life
There’s no need for guilt, it’s really just deciding
Look at any product on the market for example cell phones
You benefit tremendously by them
Someone was away from their family in order to create the first cell phone
This is normal
It’s about realistic expectations
Questions???
What things are you willing to miss to pursue business?
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What things are you willing to miss to pursue family?
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Everyone is someone, to someone
You have many admirers. Slow down. Look for them. Encouragethem.
Question???
What younger person will you encourage on their entrepreneurialjourney today?
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Legacy
Feel
Like
Know
Do
This is my legacy
What makes you feel deeply?
What makes you cry
What makes you laugh so hard
What make you so angry
What things do you really just like?
Think back to childhood what did you most enjoy doing?
What do you like to do when you don’t have to think about income?
What passions lie within you?
What do you truly KNOW?
What do you have mastery of?
What is so easy for you?
What do people say you are really good at?
What do you Do?
How do you spend your time currently to earn income?
What do you do at home that could be a skill in the marketplace?
What is your Zone of Genius?
Question???
What is your legacy. What do you Feel? What do you Like?What do you Know? What do you Do?
Feel
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Like
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Know
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Do
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